Let's Talk About Sex...

1. Do you think sex is a must in a relationship?

K: It really depends on the relationship. People value different aspects of their relationships and strive off of different things. Sex is a must in any of my relationships because it's a form of expression that I truly appreciate. I believe a mental and spiritual connection elevates just physical "sex" to a whole notha level.

R: Coming from an asexual, no it is definitely not a must in my opinion. But it also depends on who you're with. If they view sex as something important in the relationship, then it won't work if you view it differently. It's all about being on the same page when it comes to how sex works into the relationship.

2. What makes you feel the sexiest during sex?

K: I'm honestly still exploring my sexuality so there's not one key thing that really jumps out at me. I will say though, I do enjoy little things like compliments about things that were noticed due to careful observation ;) or when a guy sorta begs for it (lol).

R: I would say the comfort level makes me feel the sexiest because Im not afraid to try anything and I know my partner isn't judging me. Also matching underwear and bra doesn't hurt lol.

3. Do you think sex is overrated?

K: It really depends on the type of sex you're having. I haven't had a whole deal of sex, and I haven't also had my "ideal" sex yet, but a lot of the sex out here is really nothing too tough. It's easy to get wrapped up in some physical nonsense that gives you a quick buzz here and there, but at the end of the day if it's not grounded in something true, deep, and honest, then what are we really doing?

R: I don't think it's overrated I think its got to the point where we've become numb to the experience that it was meant to be. Everywhere we look, sex is everywhere and casual sex is a big thing in our society. I believe when you have sex there’s an exchange of energies and those energies can be beneficial or toxic to you. I mean most of us out there have had our hoe days, but it comes to a point where you have to take in who you’re letting into your temple.