Personal Q&A Part 2
- Racquel Wallen & Kimberlee Mighty
- Aug 21, 2018
- 4 min read
What was the experience that impacted you most in your life?
R: I would say high school, specifically grade 10, impacted me the most. I did not know myself and always followed the crowd and went along with anything my friends would do or tell me to do (I know right?). Trust me the bullying game was real and I was not doing things for myself. I was bullied for stupid shit like hooking up with a guy, not going to church and reading my Bible and shit like that. Mans cut me off for not complying. Which is why I turned into such a savage because my voice was silenced for so long.
K: The 4 years I spent away at University really had one of the biggest impacts on my life. SOOOOOO much happened within those years that I will forever cherish. Before University I would describe myself as independent and mature...to an extent lol. My university experience helped me realized that although very mature, I was also very immature when it came to certain life experiences. It really pushed me to look within myself to places that I most likely wouldn't have if it wasn't for my journey away for school.
What are the qualities you are looking for in someone to grow old with?
R: Definitely someone who is down to constantly raise their vibrations and open there inner chakras with me lol. Someone who loves unconditionally and without shame. A guy who isn't afraid to show his affection because I've been around some pretty unaffectionate emotionally unintelligent mans. Someone who would be down to go vegetarian because I'm trying to have some vegetarian kids, And most importantly, someone who has a strong belief in God and who speaks with Him on the regular.
K: First and foremost my partner needs to understand and recognize that at the end of the day...we ain't shit compared to who our creator is. I'm not only looking for a financial partner, or a partner to slay the gram with, but most importantly a spiritual partner. Someone who can push me to be the best version of myself and vice versa. Someone who pushes me to seek the Most High in all that I do. I'm definitely a giver, and find it really hard to find an equal who can feed my soul as much as I can feed their's. I'm a really strong willed/minded individual, and in all honesty, I wouldn't mind finding me a captain to not only lead our ship, but our future family's.
What are you most grateful for in your life?
R: Most grateful for God allowing me to make it this far and being alive! Also my friends and my family for sure because without them I would not be alive. Also grateful for a lot of other things too like being able to move my body, my health, my opportunities that have come my way and the ones that missed me.
K: I am definitely most grateful that the Most High saw it fit for me to still be here and alive. No I'm not just talking about the physical motion of my lungs taking in oxygen and exhaling it (although crucial), but more in the sense that He has given me the eyes and spirit to see the real. A part of being alive is to be constantly aware and thinking about your presence and impact in this world. A lot of people are alive but aren't living. The fact that I can feel and see deeper than this distorted world...I am very grateful for.
Do you believe in soul mates?
R:10000% I do! I believe we also have more than one soul mate, and more than one type of soul mate. I believe our closest friends are our soul mates. I also believe that you can be compatible with multiple people from all over the world. So ladies and gents, don't get caught up with someone who you thought was your one and only true soul mate because there are others out there.
K: I honestly don't know how to feel about this question. I feel like humans are so layered and evolve all the time so it's really hard to know if there is just that one person for you. Every relationship is a choice, from friendships to lovers. The people involved in that partnership decide what they are willing to give and take in that relationship in order for it to work or not work. At this moment I feel like people meet eachother where they are. Sometimes it's exactly where they are, sometimes not.
Who is your role model?
R: I have a few! My mom is one of them. I have never met a person who has endured through everything in life like she has. Literally I could write a whole novel on all the shit she has been through and is still going through today. She is the strongest person I know and I aspire to be as mentally and physically strong as her. Also I consider my friends to be my role models as well. I learn about life from their perspectives everyday and see them shining in the parts of my life I want to be shining in. For example, Kim and her emotional and strong bond with God that no one could fathom is something I admire. Love you <3
K: I would say that my current role model is myself lol. I know so weird to say, but truly, who else plays my role better than myself. Only I know where I've come from and only I know where I'm headed. With the strength of the Most High and my family and friends, everyday I feel like a superhuman ready to tackle the world. Like shit, I inspire myself, like "Go head boo!"